“We don’t laugh enough,” my mom remarked, when she saw my husband and me laughing at some humorous incident involving her care. (It often was either laugh or cry.)
I realized Mother didn’t think we were laughing at her (something I’d feared), but enjoyed the sound of laughter and joined us. I also realized that she needed laughter in her life, as we did in ours, and we then tried to see the humor in situations that could be frustrating.
It was interesting to come across an article today, Research Finds Laughter May Be Strong Medicine for Alzheimer’s and Dementia Patients. Researchers are finding that laughter can be a help in reducing agitation and the struggles associated with these situations.